What To Do As Well As Not To Do At A Wedding

Content by-Munck Jensen

Are you on the verge of getting hitched and need some wedding planning guidance? You are definitely in the right place. This article has some great advice for planning a smooth and memorable wedding you'll always remember happily.



If you or your future husband have a great voice, one of the things that you can do is to sing a song at your wedding. This should be a slow song that you dedicate either to your future soul mate or someone that is looking down upon you at your wedding.

A wedding is a very special occasion that takes a lot of planning. To have a perfect wedding you need to do your research. Start by talking to other family members that have taken this step and find yourself a decent wedding planner if you require more help. You can have a beautiful wedding, and you can also just go to the court house if you want a more subtle wedding.

When planning your wedding, keep in mind the weather. You want your guests to be comfortable in your wedding, and it would be bad to having them overly hot or cold. If your wedding is when it is hot outside, consider giving out hand fans and cold bottles of water. If you are planning your wedding in colder weather, let your guests know that they should dress appropriately.

Find out before your wedding ceremony when and where you are permitted to take photographs. Some venues won't permit flash photography at all, while some officiants don't want anyone taking photos while they are conducting the ceremony. If you find out the rules ahead of time you can plan out the shots you are allowed to take beforehand.

When purchasing your wedding cake, think about the options that could save you money. If you want a fancy wedding cake, purchase a small one for just the wedding party and buy a large sheet cake for the rest of the guests. Your guests will still enjoy it just as much as your smaller wedding cake.

Practice walking down the aisle before the big day. Many brides get nervous when they have never walked down the aisle, which can cause them to trip and fall. Also, if you have young children as ring bearers, make sure they practice before your wedding day, so they know what they are doing.

If you're planning on having a cash bar at your wedding, consider giving your guests tickets for free drinks. You can place them with the guests' name cards and then let them know what they're for when they arrive to the reception. Also, hire a company to run the bar that will keep the drink price low.

Ask the parents of the flower girl and/or ring bearer to get the children to bed early the night before the ceremony or try to give them a nap during the day for an evening wedding. Well-rested children are much more attentive and carry a longer attention span for things than children who may be irritable from a lack of sleep.

Consider how many people will be dancing at your reception when you look at the dance floors of your possible reception venues. You want to have ample room for everyone to get down, so if the dance floor of your favorite venue is lacking at least make sure that you can add some size by moving nearby tables and chairs.

For both brides and grooms, it is important that you do not drink too much at your wedding reception. Although a few drinks are okay, getting drunk will just make you not remember your day and could cause you to do or say something that you are going to later regret.

Consider purchasing wedding insurance. If you are spending a lot of money on a wedding, then wedding insurance can protect your investment if any problems arise. For example, a supplier going bust or a wedding cancellation due to the bride or groom being ill or injured on the big day.

Do your research before hiring a wedding planner. Take a tip from stylists and fashion designers. Create a look book and/or a mood board of inspirational tidbits, imagery and fabric swatches that will help you envision the big day. In addition to swatches, take photographs, newspaper clippings and song lyrics and place in your look book.

Get married in an unusual location. The most popular venues in town will book early and will be very expensive. Consider going to an aquarium or a museum and seeing what they charge for a reception. Their packages usually include almost everything that you will need, and they cost less than other traditional venues.

Instead of heavy room fragrances, candles, and oil diffusers, you can carefully select flowers and herbs to create a more natural, earthy aroma for your venue. Citrus-esque scents, such as those of mimosas, lemon verbena, and waxflower, are ideal for daytime weddings that are held in summery locations or tropical oceanfront settings.

Make a list of all the questions you might want answered when looking at banquet halls for your wedding. This way you can be sure that you will not miss a question once you are there. Since sales reps can sometimes be quick or pressed for time, you might end up forgetting about things you wanted to know. A list of questions will help you keep on track.

Consider using fake flowers for your wedding. This saves a lot of money and most people will not be able to tell that they aren't real. If you are crafty, you can put together the arrangement yourself in advance of your big day. You can also spray a floral scent on the bouquet if you want the flowers to smell fresh.

If you need to cut costs on your wedding day, think about which items can serve a dual role at your event. For example, buy water bottles for your guests and add a personalized label to them. Not only can they be handed out as wedding favors, but they also provide refreshment during the reception.

Have the majority of your pictures taken during the ceremony and immediately after. If you are able to hire your photographer for a certain number of hours, you will save money. If you are concerned about not having pictures at the reception, place disposable cameras on the tables and allow your guests to snap pictures.

Hopefully you have learned a few things to take a bit of the burden of wedding planning off of your shoulders. As hectic and involved as your wedding will be, remember it is also supposed to be one of the happiest days of your life! Plan and prepare with the help of the advice in this article and also be sure to schedule as much fun, laughter and romance as you can!